‘Mum Why Are There No Female Prophets?’

On Role Models For Your Little Princess AND Your Little Prince



Name two Prophets who didn’t have a father?

Hmmm….prophet Adam?

Yes awesome!

“… aaaaandddd…. I forgot…his name …”

Prophet Adam had neither mother not father but this prophet had a mother. Do you remember now?

Er…..prophet Jesus? But I forgot his name in the Quran!”

We are sitting at the breakfast table on a Saturday morning, and in ‘pop quiz’ style I challenge my son and husband to answering these questions. Something in our conversation had triggered it, something about different families?  I can’t remember exactly what now, but I guess that is the point – I do my best to try and seamlessly incorporate the stories about the prophets into our everyday lives.

“Name a prophet who had two mothers?” I asked next, flipping a pancake at the same time. I liked this one, they would have to think harder.

The stories of the Prophets are important in our family. Ever since that first time when on a whim I started retelling the story of   Prophet Musa (Moses) , ‘a real superhero’ to my then 3 year old superhero obsessed boy, we not only became familiar with the basic stories of most Prophets, but my son also started loving them.  Like really loving them, asking again and again for a particular story, relishing its details. So naturally it started becoming easier to bring a ‘lesson’ from their lives into a conversation.

On asking him to ‘forgive’ his sister for breaking down lego he had spent a lot of time making – Remember how Prophet Yusuf  (Joseph)  forgave all his ‘Big Bad Brothers’ (a term he coined himself the first time I ‘retold the story’)  when they said how sorry they were, even though they had treated him so badly?

I don’t expect these ‘lessons’ to soak in perfectly. His rage regarding the dismantled lego did not just diminish with that one sentence, but I know these reminders are seeds planted which will, I pray,  start to grow and flower later on, to be remembered, maybe,at some other, more appropriate time.

I thought I had it ‘cracked’. Yes, I had found a way to make the Prophets ‘real’ for my kids, but there was one incident which made me think again. A fellow Muslim Mama posed a question that her son had asked her… A question quite profound given his young age, a question that I would be proud of, had my own son asked it to me ~

Mum why are there no female prophets?

I grew up as the eldest of four girls. No brothers.  I used to hear the whispers surrounding my mother, distressingly enough it was always other women who would lament at her ‘misfortune’:

‘Allah has given you everything’ they would say, Now He should have just given you a son’

Never mind the baseless bias toward a boy child –  they didn’t even realise they were questioning the Creator Himself. I thank God, that we had also the voice of our father surrounding us – a voice powerful enough to drown out those other voices. He taught us the hadiths (prophetic traditions) on the virtues of having daughters and so, when I grew up,  I fervently wanted to be the mother of a girl(s) myself.

When I didn’t yet know the gender of my second child, I would make dua for a daughter with a feeling in the pit of my stomach, trying not to desire her so much. When she was born I imagined telling her stories of the ‘Princesses of Jennah”, ( in my head I also debated the more alliterative ‘Princesses of Paradise’ )

I imagined idyllically in a few years time – mother daughter bonding over stories of her namesake, Hazrett Ai’sha, one of the most prolific women the world had ever seen.

What I failed to grasp then and only started to realise now after that thoughtful question from a young boy, is that it is not just our daughters who need to hear these stories – it is our sons too. And maybe more importantly so.

There seems to be this unwritten rule that boys won’t like stories/books with a female protagonist, but it’s perfectly normal and also expected for girls to read about and like books with male protagonists. I was making the same assumptions in my mind already, by ‘saving’ these stories of trailblazing women in Islam for a future conversation with my daughter when my son was already in front of me, at the age to fully understand and comprehend them.

Pondering on from that thought, I realised I NEEDED  my son to hear these stories even before my daughter heard them. I waited for an opportune moment … We had been reading a library book about Kings and Pharaohs of the past…

‘Do you know HOW prophet Musa became a superhero prophet?’ I asked.

Yes, I was about to bust out the superhero’s ‘back story’.  Just like in the movies. Except in this story the hero wasn’t our prophet – the “sheroes”  were three intelligent, persistent and brave women who were the reason for who prophet Musa was to become . His mother, his sister and the wife of the Pharaoh himself – his foster or adoptive mother – the  ‘Princess’ Asyia’ one of the true ‘Princesses of Jennah.

If you are interested, here is how I retold Hazret Musa’s ‘origin’ story (just skip the italics if not!)


Prophets Musa’s mother was very happy as she had just given birth to him – a beautiful baby boy … however her happiness soon turned to tears when the Evil Pharaoh sent his soldiers with orders to kill all the new born boys of the land. You see he had been told by a soothsayer that a boy from the Israelites would be the reason for his demise…

The heart of Musa’s mother sent out a prayer to Allah and Allah answered her, He told her to put the baby in a basket and let it float down stream like a little boat with a precious secret cargo.

Musa’s mother’s intuition made her ask her daughter  – Musa’s older sister to run along and follow the basket … keeping an eye out to see what happens.

The river led to the gardens of the palace where there was another sad lady – the wife of the Pharaoh herself – the Queen of Egypt and her heart was sad because she longed to have a baby in her arms  yet didn’t have one … but look there! What was that stuck among the bushes and reeds of the river? It was a Gift from God Himself – her hands reached out to grab the soft sweet body of a baby! She pleaded with her husband to allow her to bring up the boy – he will be like our son she said. ‘A comfort to our eyes’ The Pharaoh finally relented and as was the custom in those days the Queen set about to find a wet nurse for the baby –  

‘What is a wet nurse? You might ask … a wet nurse is one who can give ‘mama’s milk’ to a baby. Many babies are lucky enough to receive their own mama’s milk but in those days when a mama like the Queen couldn’t give her own milk to a baby she would pay another woman to do it. And guess what? Musa’s clever sister sought audience with the Kind Queen and told her she knew of the perfect woman for the job! Yes in this way through the plan of Allah the baby Musa was able to be breastfed by his own mother and all three women were in peace and loved the little boy with all their hearts. In this way prophet Musa had two mothers.

(Of course one of the most compelling parts of this story is the later episode of Aasiya’s torture by her husband and the ultimate bravery and strength of faith that she showed … The kind of spiritual and physical strength that is almost not of this world! This is something I do not shy away from describing to my child and any child, boy or girl, who hears of it would be filled with awe and wonder)


There is so much we know about Musa (as) no wonder his is one of the most often mentioned names in the Quran. From his birth through to his relationships as an adult. Even down to the detail of a speech impediment he had, which gave rise to the beautiful dua many of us use before commencing any endeavour for eloquent communication.

It’s vital to show our children – these real, true examples of women who were just as important and influential as the men we hear about. As for that question – ‘why are there no female prophets?’  *Although we can not be sure whether female prophets existed or not (and there are some who believe women were given prophethood)* , I hope that by starting this kind of discussion with not only our girls but especially our boys they would both come to know that one doesn’t have to be a prophet to have Allah communicate directly with them and that Allah chose many women to change the course of history with their faith and action.

The story of Hajjar, and therein the whole premise of Hajj, is centered on a mother’s  quest to breastfeed and nourish her child.  Mariam, the mother of our beloved Prophet Jesus, was sent the most special of messengers – the Angel Gabriel with a direct message from Allah. Hazret Aasiya herself, when tortured for her faith, asked for and was shown, by Allah, her palace near Him in Paradise.

I have started to put a real emphasis on these stories with my son. Now he is six years old and through them we have had conversations about breastfeeding and bravery, about adoption and orphans and single parents and recently even about labour, when I described to him how the most ‘honorable woman’ mentioned in the Quran, Mariam (ra)  felt the pains of labour on giving birth to prophet Isa (Jesus). We talk about the amazing scholar, poet, woman of science and medicine that his little sister was named after: A’isha (ra). I want these names to be a part of his understanding as much as the names of the Prophets already are. And I pray that the stories of these ‘Princesses of Paradise’ are not only kept bound for our daughters to read but that our sons may also learn from them and emulate the characters of these Mighty Women.



*Edited to add*



Also ‘Celebrating the Feminine Attributes of God’

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  • Reply Faiqa Anbreen November 17, 2020 at 6:25 am

    Salam Sumaya Baaji, absolutely loved reading this. Mashallah, you have narrated and structured it so beautifully.

  • Reply Farah Nizamani August 26, 2017 at 1:48 pm

    Dear Sumaya,
    What an amazing and inspirational read !! I am a mother of Alhamdolillah 5 healthy beautiful girls and has always been immensely grateful to Allah SWT for this blessing.
    My 2.5 year old granddaughter Inaaya has been asking her mother to tell the story of Prophet Inaaya after listening to Prophet Yusuf AS (Yusuf my grandson from 2nd daughter )and Prophet Adam AS (Inaaya’s younger brother) stories . We were amazed at her query and little confused how to answer her . Alhamdolillah one of my friend shared your post .
    Lessons from the stories of Prophets by Mufti Ismail Menk is an amazing series on YouTube if anyone interested.
    May Allah SWT make us and our future generations follow the path of righteous ones . Aameen

  • Reply Kamila February 19, 2017 at 5:03 pm

    Maybe there were no female Prophets because of the way women were disrespected, mistreated and mishandled in those days, and sadly some still are. I think the mark of the eras of jahiliya in any nation throughout history were not particularly favorable to any women. Unfortunately, women would not have been listened to, easily hurt, or worse…easier to get rid of. Just my humble opinion though.

  • Reply ayesha October 17, 2016 at 2:04 am

    i wish your children the best! thanks for the inspiration.

  • Reply Fatima October 17, 2016 at 12:11 am

    I love this!! You’re a great narrator, you should seriously think about writing Islamic children’s books 🙂

  • Reply Ira October 16, 2016 at 1:49 pm

    What a wonderful thought and such a beautiful narration. Thank you.

  • Reply Anik Lorgat October 16, 2016 at 12:02 pm

    Dear Sumaya and fellow readers,
    It was a real pleasure to dive in this article. The writing is very warm.
    Even though I’m atheist, my entire family is Muslim, and so was my upbringing, I believe it’s essential to have humility and respect for different beliefs, so it thrills me to see an article like this. We share similar backgrounds, different beliefs, yet same values: every person is important, either a man, a woman, a genderfluid person, etc.
    Congratulations, and may we all spread love, respect and kindness among our very diverse world!

    • Reply Sumaya October 17, 2016 at 2:50 am

      Thank you! And ‘amen’ to your hope of spreading, love, respect and kindness – these are some of the very principles we built MAMANUSHKA on.

  • Reply Nasrin Chowdhury October 16, 2016 at 6:24 am

    I think maybe there doesn’t seem to be any female prophets is because perhaps Allah might not have wanted the immense burden of showing the message, the more public part of it to be handled by females. As it is, women has enough to handle. Plus bringing out the true message to the masses and yet maintain a distance in the form of hijab would be more difficult for women. So maybe Allah didn’t put that burden on women and instead have them the power to shape the future if Islam from the backstage.
    Anyways, that’s just a speculation. Allah knows best! This article was very inspiring! 😃

  • Reply Pabx October 15, 2016 at 11:57 pm

    An inspiring piece from a talented narrator and mother MashAllah. Thank you for sharing such good advice

  • Reply Khawlah October 15, 2016 at 10:44 pm

    Masha’Allah, I thoroughly enjoyed reading this beautiful post. So inspiring. May the children of our ummah forever be enlightened, inspired and empowered by these wonderful stories of the amazing role models Allah gifted us with, alhamdulillah. Ameen.

  • Reply Nudrath October 15, 2016 at 4:54 pm

    You are gifted narrator!! Mashallah!
    Lucky are those who are around you , listening to the treasure trove of Islamic stories. Your blog reminds me of my mom… I have been wanting to share similar stories about our prophets to my children and have been searching for books. If you know of any books about the Prophets and their lives , written in english , pls do let me know.God Bless!!

  • Reply Leila October 15, 2016 at 3:52 pm

    Another great read mashaAllah! Time to let our female role models shine in our children’s (male and female!) eyes! You certainly have a talent for retelling these great stories in a way children can appreciate them!

  • Reply sirajunmunira October 15, 2016 at 2:30 pm


    I love your article! I don’t have a daughter but I agree that it is just as important for our boys to learn about important ladies in the prophetic histories and lady saints as well. Thank you so much for your thoughts and may I repost your article?

    • Reply Mamanushka October 15, 2016 at 3:04 pm

      Of course you may! Thank you for stopping by to comment! x

  • Reply Ayesha October 15, 2016 at 10:04 am

    Really like and appreciate the whole concept of introducing the towering personalities of not only prophets but also their companions to the young and impressionable minds of our children, but being not a master in the art of storytelling to my 5 yr old while also keeping his interest sparked is a bit of a problem. Could you share some of the stoeies you tell and most importantly hiw you tell them?

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